Thursday, December 29, 2011

Millions of Miles

In one day, the Earth travels approximately 1.598 million miles from its initial position. Since I last wrote, we have traveled quite far.  It's been about a month so I will separate the updates into sections like I did the last post.

Health
Nothing has really changed here.  I've been on this patch for a while now.  I like it, but I still have to take my pain meds every once in a while to help the pain.  Right now, I'm in the middle of a lupus flare.  I know this by a few reasons......1) My face is vividly showing the lupus butterfly rash and the rash is seen on other parts of my body.  2) I am in pain.  Duh!  My joints hurt.  My hips and lower back are killing me as well as my hands and toes!  Believe it or not, my lil' toe does hurt!  Haha.  3) I feel like I have the flu.  Every day.  It really is horrendous.  I wish I could get rid of this part because it makes my fatigue worse and my body is nauseous, etc. I can only hope that this flare will end soon and I will be feeling much better soon!

School
I have decided that I will not be returning to school in Spring of 2012.  This is due to getting my health in order as well as a few personal reasons that are not going to be shared on the world wide web.  I am terribly excited to have this break although I will miss the learning that happens with school.  I need to refocus myself on what I want to do and who I want to be in this life before I return to get degrees and certifications.  After losing Jalen, who was my constant lil' reminder of who I need to be, I lost my way.  A lot of prep work didn't get done in order to switch schools for the Spring so I'm concerned it would be useless to try and attend school without that work being done.  I am not concerned that I will get too busy to return to school.  I am pretty set on going back to school.  I know who I am and so I will....WILL return to school in the Fall.

Family
Considering Christmas just passed and the new year is approaching, family is doing well.  I got to see some of my family this year.  Work prohibited me from seeing my family on Christmas Eve with the exception of seeing Grandma, Grandpa, and Aunt Davine late in the night!  And I've worked all of this week except for yesterday, which I spent with my Dad and lil' sibs!  :)  Oh, and I'll work the rest of this week too!  So, work is going well, I suppose.  I just hate that all the managers are guys, so no one gets it and my coworkers don't understand me whatsoever.  But, I suppose that's how it goes.
Anyway, family.  So, I had my first Christmas with Nichole.  I loved it.  She is such an amazing woman that I couldn't help but overspend for her.  PLUS, I got some amazing things from her.  She bought us a comforter/sheet set.  It is by far the most comfortable comforter EVER!  Oh, and we have an awesome family game called SCRABBLE!!! :)  We've had a lot of fun playing many times.  It's been hard finding time with each other since she started working nights.  I honestly hate that our schedules do not go together at all!  It makes me crazy when I get home and she is leaving for the night.  But, I suppose that is how it goes.  We do get some time to ourselves, but I wish it were at normal hours of the day when we didn't have 15 billion other things to do and take care of.  BUT...Christmas was phenomenal.  We got to spend it with both of our families over the 3 day Christmas celebration.  :)

Well....I think that's about all I need to update you all on.  OH...We did move at the end of November.  So we are closer to everything.  But we are millions of miles away from yesterday and even further from where we were at the beginning of our relationship.  We are stronger than ever in each other and in our love.  We take each day at a time and if there is one thing we never do we never take love for granted.  "I love you" are the most powerful words of our day.  And they are said often!  :)

Have a great day!!!

Oh....and I love you, Nichole!!! :)